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Ucela lokho okufuna kona ngempela

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Kukhona into oyifunayo, kodwa usuvele wanquma ukucela okuncanyana kunalokho oyifuna ngempela. Lesi sinqumo senzeka ngokuthula, mhlawumbe amasonto edlule, kodwa kufanele siphinde sibhekwe kusasa lelokhu, ngoba usuku lusesha. Ukukhanya kuhle. Ucabanga ngokucacile. Leli yihora elifanele lokuphinda ubuke lokhu kabusha.

Iphephanoli livulwe ekhasini elinenombolo eyabhalwa yabuye yesuliwe. Umsindo owomile wekhasi liphenduka. Kwenye indawo ikatela liyabila kalubi. Umbhalo wesandla sakho, ohlala ubukeka uqiniseke kakhulu kunalokho owazizwa unjalo ngesikhathi ubhala.

Uzixoxile nawe uqobo ngaphambi kokuba noyedwa umuntu athole ithuba lokuphendula. Kuzizwa sengathi ukungabaza okuqondile, kanti empeleni kuyisinciphisa esingacelwe muntu. Isizathu esenza lokhu kubize kakhulu ukuthi umuntu okuphambana naye usebenza ngokusekelwe kulokho okushilo, hhayi kulokho owakuqonda ngempela. Ngaleyo ndlela, inombolo encishisiwe iphenduka kube isilinganiso sokugcina sengxoxo. Awuzivikeli ngokwakho ekwaleni, kunalokho uphendule isivumelwane esingaba khona ube isivumelwane esincane, wabe usuthatha lokho njengobufakazi bokuthi ukucela akubalulekile.

Cabanga ngokuthi ukwaliwa kungabiza kanjani ngempela. Ubukhona uphatha ukwaliwa njengesahlulelo esimayelana nekwaziphathi kwako, yingakho isicelo sihlala sincipha ngaphambi kokuba sikhulunywe. Kodwa ukwaliwa yimininingwane ngezingqinamba zomuntu othize ngosuku oluthize, futhi akushomayelana nawe. Ngale kwalokho, ukuvunyelwa esicelweni esigcwele kungaguqula isimo sonyaka wonke. Umehluko lo mkhulu kakhulu, futhi ukusekele wena, kanti ubuwubeka inani ngendlela ephambene ngesikhathi eside njengoba ukhumbula.

Ngakho isicelo siyahamba namuhla ngesilinganiso osifuna ngempela, ngaphandle kokuxolisa noma ukunciphisa okuvela ngaphakathi. Umusho owodwa ocacile oqamba into oyifunayo. Bese kuthule, wena uvumele bona baphendule, kunokuthi uziphendule wena.

Noma kuphi lapho impendulo izovela, uzokwazi okuthile kweqiniso ngobusuku bakhona, kunokuqhubeka nokuqagela inyanga engenani. Lokho kufanele ukuzwela okubi kokuthumela umlayezo owodwa. Cela ngesilinganiso esigcwele. Impumela embi engaphezulu iyiqiniso ongalisebenzisa.