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Uyayeka ukulungiselela uqale ukwenza
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Ulungele ngokweqile. Mhlawumbe ulungele ngaphezu kwalokho okudingekayo kunoma ubani ozama lokhu, futhi kufanele ukuqaphele lokho namhlanjesi, ngaphambi kokuba enye ihora liphinde lisetshenziswe kulokhu. Izincwadi, amanothi, uhlelo oselulungiswe izikhathi eziningi. Idesiki iyakukhombisa konke lokho. Namuhla kunesikhala sokwenza okuhlukile.
Amathebhu amathathu avuliwe ngesihloko esifanayo. Ipeni lokugqamisa eselomile ekugcineni. Isihlalo sisohlangothini esesiluvamisile ngemuva kokuhlala isikhathi eside. Umusi ophuma kokuthile, nomuzwa wegumbi ebelicatshangwa kulo kunokuthi kusetshenziwe kulo.
Ukulungiselela kwayeka ukukufundisa okuthile isikhathi eside eledlule, kodwa waqhubeka ukukwenza, futhi isizathu ukuthi kuzwakala njengokuthuthuka ngempela ngaphandle kokuthwala noma yimuphi umonakalo. Lena isimo esifihlekile okufanele sichazwe ngokusobala: ucwaningo luyasiza ngempela kuze kube yilapho luba yindlela elula kunazo zonke yokubambezela umzamo, futhi lokho kushintsha ngokuthula. Akekho okumemezelayo. Ungachitha unyaka usohlangothini oluseduze naleyo mgqa, usebenza kanzima nsuku zonke, bese ufika unolwazi olukhulu kodwa ungenalo nalulodwa ulwazi lokwenza.
Bheka ukuthi yikuphi ngempela okufundisayo. Umzamo owodwa wangempela ukunika izinto okungekho ukutadisha okungakunikeza zona: lapho imibono yakho beyingelungile khona, yiliphi icala elinzima ngempela, kuzwakala kanjani into leyo isebenza ngesivinini esigcwele kunokuthi kuchazwe kuphela. Ukutadisha kukunika ibalazwe, kanti umzamo ukunika indawo yangempela, futhi ubuye wadweba kabusha ibalazwe amasonto amaningi ngoba indawo yangempela inesimo sezulu kuyo. Abantu abaphuthuma ukuba baqavile abahlakaniphile kunawe. Bavele bachitha isabelo esikhulu sesikhathi sabo ohlangothini lomugqa lapho impendulo yokusiza ikhona.
Ngakho namuhla, kunomzamo owodwa wangempela hhayi ukuqhubeka nokulungiselela. Hhayi uhlelo oluncono. Hhayi esinye isahluko. Into ngempela, noma ikuphi ikhwalithi namuhla eliyikhiqizayo, yenziwe obala noma ngasese kodwa yenziwe ngempela.
Kuzohamba kabi kunalokho okucabanga ngakho engqondweni yakho, kodwa kuzokufundisa okungaphezu kwalokho ocabangayo. Lokho ukushintshaniswa yikho konke okubalulekile, futhi kade kutholakala kuwe kusukela ekuqaleni. Kuthathe namuhla.