Dapɛn bi wɔ hɔ a ɛkyerɛ wo sɛ adwuma no reyɛ adwuma. Wopo adwuma bi, na ɛnyɛ sɛ na wompɛ. Wopo efisɛ worentumi nhyehyɛ nneɛma mu, nnye nkra so, na woayɛ ade no nyinaa nnanson koro mu. Ɛno yɛ ɔhaw pa, na ano aduru a ɛwɔ hɔ no yɛ mmerɛw sen sɛnea asɛmfua "fa obi" no te.
Wo nipa a wodi kan fa no yɛ nnɔnhwerew anan kosi awotwe a wutua ka wɔ dapɛn biara mu, wɔ adwuma baako a wonyɛ no yiye koraa ho. Ɛnyɛ bosome akatua, ɛnyɛ ɔfese, ɛnyɛ adwuma ho nkyerɛkyerɛmu tenten. Nnɔnhwerew anan, adwuma baako a wɔsan yɛ no daa, a wɔakyerɛw no sɛ nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu ansa na obiara de ne nsa aka.
Na afei ade a obiara nsusuw ho ni. Saa nnɔnhwerew anan no taa yɛ obi adwuma a edi kan a wotua ho ka wɔ wo dwumadi mu. Ɛnyɛ bere nko na woretɔ asan. Woreyɛ ade a na wohia paa bere a wufii ase no: obi a ɔpɛ sɛ ɔma wo kwan bere a woyɛ foforo.
Bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mefa obi ampa?
Bere a worepo adwuma a anka wubetumi ayɛ, na ɛnyɛ bere a woadu sika dodow bi so. Adwuma a woapo no yɛ sika a woasan wo nsa afi so dedaw, na ɛno nti ɛno ne akontaabu baako a wubetumi de atoto mmoa bo ho nokware mu.
Sika dodow a wɔahyɛ no nyɛ nsɛnkyerɛnne pa mma adwuma a onipa baako wɔ mu, efisɛ akontaabu a ɛho hia no nyɛ nea ɛbaa mu, na mmom nea ɛsɛ sɛ wopo. Kyerɛw adwuma biara a wopoo no bosome a etwaam no ne sika a anka ɛbɛba. Sɛ saa akontaabu no so sen bosome baako mu nnɔnhwerew anan dapɛn ka wɔ wo kurom bo pa so a, ɛno de na akontaabu no adi mu dedaw, na abɛyɛ bere tenten.
Afei paw adwuma no, na ɛha na nnipa fom. Wɔde adwuma a wɔmpɛ koraa ma. Fa nea wonyɛ no yiye na woyɛ no daa no ma, na saa adwuma no taa yɛ soronko. Nneɛma hyehyɛ, nneɛma to so din, nkrataa a wode bisa ka, nkra a edi kan, dua twitwa ne mu twiw, akontaahyɛ. Ɛsɛ sɛ ɛyɛ ade a wɔsan yɛ no, ɛnsɛ sɛ ehia w'ankasa w'ani gyinabea, na ɛsɛ sɛ onipa a ɔhwɛ ne ho yiye betumi ayɛ no yiye wɔ nnawɔtwe abien mu.
Ɛnyɛ ade a woyɛ no sen biara da. Na wɔ asram asia a edi kan mu no, ɛnyɛ nkɔmmɔ a wo ne adetɔfo bɛbɔ afa sika ho da.
Mɛyɛ dɛn de adwuma bi ama a ɛrenhwere me bere sen nea ɛbɛkora so?
Kyerɛw adwuma no sɛ nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu ansa na woafa obi, na susuw bere a wode yɛ bere a worekyerɛw no. Nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu no ne adwuma no fa kɛse, na ɛfata sɛ woyɛ mpo sɛ wonnfa obi da.
Wubehu sɛ na wowɔ ɔkwan bi. Obiara wɔ bi. Nhyehyɛe a wufa so, ade a wohwɛ no mprenu, teep no ho nyansa ketewa no, nea enti a wo mfa adaka a ɛto so abien da: ne nyinaa te wo nsam na biara nni nsɛm mu ɛbɛsi nnɛ. Sɛ wode hyɛ nsɛm mu a, ɛno ne bere a edi kan a wubehu w'ankasa wo kwan no pefee ara ma woatumi ama ayɛ papa.
Ɛno nyɛ mfaso ketewa. Adwenem nkae ho nhwehwɛmufo ahu sɛ nnipa a wosua ade a wɔsusuw sɛ wɔbɛkyerɛkyerɛ mu no hyehyɛ nea wonim no yiye na wɔkae pii sen wɔn a wosua ma sɔhwɛ, na wohuu saa nsakrae no mpo bere a wɔankyerɛkyerɛ mu koraa. Sɛ wusiesie wo ho sɛ worebɛkyerɛkyerɛ wo kwan mu a, ɛno ne ɔkwan a ɛyɛ ntɛm sen biara a wode benya so ampa.
Ma nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu no nyɛ tee. Anammɔn a wɔabu so nɔma, nkyerɛwde baako biara, mfonini a ɛkyerɛ sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ awie sɛ wo dwumadi hia bi a. Anammɔn du kosi aduonu yɛ nea ɛtaa ba. Fa ma, hwɛ pɛnkoro, na afei fi hɔ. San bra nnawɔtwe abien akyi na bisa nea ɛnteɛ wɔ nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu no ho, efisɛ nneɛma abiɛsa renteɛ wɔ ho, na wobetumi ahu bere a wo de wontumi nhu.
Hena na ɛsɛ sɛ mede nnɔnhwerew no ma?
Onipa a onni adwuma ho abakɔsɛm biara nanso ɔhwɛ ade yiye, sen onipa a wanyin wɔ mu a ɔreyɛ wo adɔe. Kwan a edi kan tɔ ɔhwɛ a sika krataa biara ntumi ntɔ ma wo, na ɛyɛ nnɔnhwerew anan a ne bo yɛ mmerɛw sen biara a wobɛtɔ da.
Hwɛ nsɛnkyerɛnne baako: obi a ɔpɛ sɛ ɔyɛ saa adwuma yi na wɔmmaa no kwan da. Onipa a ɔkyerɛw wo bisae sɛnea woyɛ awiei no. Osukuuni no. Ɔyɔnko a wayɛ nneɛma wɔ ne mukaase pon so afe baako na wontuaa no ka pɛn wɔ ho da. Onipa a ɔresan aba adwuma mu wɔ bere tenten akyi a obiara mpɛ sɛ obisa ho asɛm.
Mmara abien, na emu biara nni akyinnyegye. Tua bo pa a ɛfata wo mpɔtam hɔ, na tua no da pɔtee a wohyɛɛ bɔ no, bere biara. Akatua a ɛkyɛ sɛe abusuabɔ no nyinaa. Obi a ɔwɔ n'adwuma a edi kan a wotua ho ka mu no nni sika a ɔde asie na onni kwan pa a ɔbɛfa so abisa wo. Sɛ wotua no da no a, ɛno ne nea ɛkyerɛ no sɛ eyi yɛ nokware. Sɛ wuntumi ntua bere a ɛsɛ a, ɛnde wuntumi ntɔ nnɔnhwerew no ɛbɛsi nnɛ, na ɛno yɛ mmuae a ɛda hɔ pefee, ɛnyɛ awerɛhow.
Yɛ nkrataa no nso yiye. Sɛ obi yɛ kɔntragyafo anaa adwumayɛni no, ɛnyɛ din a wode to no so na ɛkyerɛ, na tow adwuma no de sɔhwɛ a wɔde hwɛ to gua. Simma du a wode bɛkenkan no seesei so bo yɛ mmerɛw sen sɛ wubehu akyiri yi.
Ɛberɛ a mede sika no ma no, dɛn ara na mede ma?
Nneɛma anan: nnɔnhwerew no, nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu no, adanse a wobetumi de adi dwuma, ne w'ahoɔyerɛw sɛ wobɛka ne din akyerɛ obi a obetumi afa no adwuma bio. Nea ɛto so anan no gye kasamu baako pɛ na ɛno ne nea ɛsakra ne afe no.
Nsonsonoe bi wɔ ha a ɛfata sɛ wusua, efisɛ nnipa pii ntee da. Ɔkyerɛkyerɛfo ka kyerɛ wo. Ɔgyefo ka wo din wɔ dan a wonni mu mu. Afotu yɛ mmerɛw na ɛyɛ dɛ sɛ wode ma. Ɔgye a wugye obi so no yɛ ade ketewa pɔtee a wo ankasa wo din bata ho, na ɛkyerɛ sɛ woka kyerɛ obi a ɔrehwehwɛ mmoa sɛ onipa yi hwɛ ade yiye na ɔyɛ ntɛm, ansa na obiara asusuw sɛ ɔbɛbisa wo.
Yɛ no pefee. Bɔ ade a ɔyɛ no yiye ampa no din, ɛnyɛ ne suban. "Ohuu nsusuwii mu mfomso wɔ nneɛma aduanan mu a anka mɛma akɔ" yɛ kasamu a ɛma obi nya adwuma. "Ɔwɔ suban pa" nyɛ saa.
Kyerɛ no ade a woyɛ no yiye bere a ɔne wo wɔ hɔ, sɛ ɛnyɛ adwuma a wɔfaa no maa mpo. Simma aduonu, pɛnkoro, wɔ sɛnea wobɔ adwuma bo ho. Ɛno ne fa a ɔrennya no baabiara, na ɛno na ɔde bedi dwuma mfe du akyi.
KEEP CALM ne hyɛfo ka n'ankasa nea ɔwɔ ho no pefee: "Always looking for opportunities to coach, train, advise, lift up, commend, champion those in my sphere. The positive energy and support I get back in return is 10 fold." Ɛno yɛ n'ankasa ne mfe aduonu ho asɛm, ɛnyɛ bɔhyɛ a ɛfa wo de ho. Wo de no yɛ nnɔnhwerew anan dapɛn biara ne kasamu baako a woka no den kyerɛ onipa a ɛfata, na abien no nyinaa yɛ adwuma mu nneyɛe a ɛyɛ daa, ɛnyɛ adɔe.
Nea ɛtaa san ba
Ka nea ɛyɛ nokware, na mma ɛnnkɔ akyiri. Obi a ɔwɔ n'adwuma a edi kan a wotua ho ka mu no taa de ɔhwɛ a onipa a wanyin wɔ mu no mfa mma ba, efisɛ ɛho hia no wɔ ɔkwan a ɛho nhia onipa a eyi yɛ ne Benada dapɛn foforo. Ɛno akyi no, hwɛ nea w'ani da so. Ebinom tena mfe pii na wɔka kyerɛ nnipa faako a wosuae. Ebinom kɔ akodi wɔn ankasa ade na wɔde adwuma a ɛboro wɔn so brɛ wo. Ebinom kɔ na wonte wɔn nka bio, na wonnhu nea ɔyɛ hena mfe pii.
Nea wubetumi de wo ho ato so no sua na ɛyɛ nokware kɛse. Adwuma no afi wo pon so. Nhwɛso nkyekyɛmu no wɔ hɔ. Wuhui sɛ na wowɔ ɔkwan bi. Nea edi so biara yɛ mfaso a wontuaa ho ka.
Fa nnɔnhwerew ka ho brɛoo, na fa ka ho bere a woapo adwuma bi, efisɛ ɛno ara ne nsɛnkyerɛnne a ɛde eyi nyinaa baa mu. Anan bɛyɛ awotwe, awotwe bɛyɛ dumien, na baabi wɔ hɔ a wugyae sɛ woyɛ onipa a ɔwɔ adwuma na wobɛyɛ adwuma a nnipa baanu wɔ mu. Kora ade baako so ma wo ho bere tenten sen biara: nkɔmmɔ a wo ne adetɔfo bɔ fa sika ho. Ɛno de ɛyɛ wo dea kosi sɛ w'akoma bɛtɔ wo yam, na ahotoso no gye bere sen sɛnea wususuw.
Afei yɛ bio afe a edi so, ma obi foforo a wɔmmaa no kwan da.
Nnyinasoɔ
- Internal Revenue Service, Independent contractor (self-employed) or employee?
- Memory & Cognition, Expecting to teach enhances learning and organization of knowledge in free recall of text passages
- U.S. Small Business Administration, Manage your business