Wopenee adwuma foforo no so nnera anadwo. Ɛyɛ adeyɛ pa, wususuw ho yiye, na anɔpa yi ɛsɛ sɛ wokɔ dan bi mu kɔka kyerɛ obi a ɔbɛfa no sɛ wode retia no.
Nea ɛfata sɛ wunim ansa na woayɛ no ni. Saa dapɛn abien yi som bo ma w'adwuma kwan sen dapɛn abien biara a wode dii adwuma yi mu. Nnipa a woregyaw wɔn hɔ no bɛyɛ w'adansefo, w'adwumayɛfo a wo ne wɔn bɛbom daakye, w'adetɔfo ne nnipa a wɔbɛkamfo wo ama adwuma a wontee ho asɛm mpo. Adwumakuw ahorow sua, na sɛ woforo kɔ soro a, ɛsua kɛse. Nea nnipa kae fa wo ho no, awiei no na ɛyɛ mu dodow no ara.
Ɛno yɛ tumi, na ɛyɛ tumi a ne bo nyɛ den koraa, efisɛ ɛkame ayɛ sɛ obiara mfa n'adwene nsi ne gyae adwuma bere no so. Dapɛn abien a wobɛyɛ w'adwuma yiye kɛkɛ, ne nneyɛe pɔtee kakraa bi a ayamye wɔ mu, mmɔ wo ka pii, na esi ɔfa a nnipa kae wɔ w'asɛm no mu no so.
Sɛ mereka akyerɛ me panyin sɛ meregyae adwuma a, dɛn na menka?
Ka wɔ n'anim anaa wɔ telefon so, na ɛnyɛ krataa so kan, na fa da no di kan. Ade a ɛte sɛɛ: Mepɛ sɛ meka kyerɛ wo sɛ merekɔ, me da a etwa to bɛyɛ da a ɛtɔ so aduonu anan, na mewɔ nhyehyɛe a mede bɛdan nnwuma a mehwɛ so no ama.
Fa da no di kan efisɛ ɛno nko ara na wo panyin no hia ampa wɔ simma a edi kan mu, na efisɛ sɛ wode di kan a, ɛkyerɛ sɛ eyi yɛ gyinae a wusii na ɛnyɛ nkɔmmɔ mfiase. Nea aka nyinaa yɛ mmerɛw bere a da no da pon no so.
Ma nea enti a woregyae no nyɛ kasasin tiawa baako a ɛyɛ nokware. Manya adwuma a ɛso. Merekɔ adwuma foforo bi mu. Ɛyɛ anammɔn pa a edi hɔ ma me. Ɛnhia sɛ wokyerɛ nea enti a wusii gyinae no ase, na sɛ wotrɛw mu a, ɛtaa bue apam na ɛnyɛ ntease. Mfa nea ɛnkɔ yiye wɔ ha nni kan, sɛ ɛyɛ nea ɛnkɔ yiye wɔ ha ne nea enti a woregyae ne nyinaa mpo a.
Hwɛ kwan sɛ wubehu nneyɛe abiɛsa no mu baako, na si wo mmuae ho gyinae ansa. Apanyin bi wɔ hɔ a ɛhɔ ara na wɔda ayamye adi. Ebinom yɛ komm na wɔyɛ nsɛm no adwumade kɛkɛ, na eyi taa yɛ ahodwiriw na ɛnyɛ ɔtan. Ebinom de akatua foforo ba. Sɛ wɔde akatua foforo ba a, da wɔn ase, gye nnɔnhwerew aduonu anan sɛ obu nti, na kae sɛ nneɛma a enti na worehwehwɛ adwuma foforo no bɛyɛ nneɛma no ara wɔ Ɔbɛnem. Afei soma krataa no da no ara, tiawa na ɔdɔ wom, sɛnea adwumayɛfo ho asɛm dwumadibea no benya nea ɛhia na biribiara mu renyɛ hare.
Nea enti a meregyae ho no, ɛsɛ sɛ mekyerɛ mu dodow ahe?
Kyerɛ mu ketewa sen sɛnea wopɛ. Kasasin baako fa adwuma foforo no ho, mfa nto ho, na nhyehyɛ nneɛma bi didi so. Nea enti a woregyae no yɛ wo dea, na nea woka wɔ adwuma no mu no na wɔbɛtaa aka bio bere a woafi hɔ akɔ.
Adwene bi tumi twe wo sɛ ka biribiara, titiriw sɛ afe a etwa to no yɛɛ den a. Ɛte sɛ nokwaredi, na ɛte sɛ nea aka akyi. Nanso gyae adwuma da nyɛ bere a eye ma saa. Wo ne nnipa a wɔretena hɔ na ɛrekasa, wɔn a wontumi nyɛ emu dodow no ara ho hwee, na wɔbɛte no sɛ woresopa baabi a wɔda so ara yɛ adwuma. Nsɛm koro no ara a anka ɛbɛyɛ afotu pa wɔ asram abiɛsa a ɛyɛ soronko mu no, bɛyɛ sɛ ɔtuo a wotow wɔ gyae adwuma da.
Kora nea ɛyɛ kokoam baako ne nea ɛyɛ bagua mu de baako so, na ma wɔnyɛ soronko. Nea ɛyɛ bagua mu de no yɛ tiawa na ɛyɛ nokware. Nea ɛyɛ kokoam no kɔ wo nkyerɛwee mu, ma wo ara, efisɛ asram dunwɔtwe akyi no, wobɛhwɛ adwuma foforo bi mu na wobɛpɛ sɛ wokae pɛpɛɛpɛ nea ɛmaa eyi anyɛ yiye.
Nea ɛda nsow ne ahobammɔ, ɔyaw a wɔyɛ wo anaa mmara ho asɛm ankasa, na ɛno nso nyɛ gyae adwuma nsɛmmisa mu ade. Ɛno fa ɔkwan a ɛfata so, wɔ krataa so, sɛ woregyae anaa wonnyae.
Dɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ meka wɔ gyae adwuma nsɛmmisa no mu?
Ka nea mfaso wɔ so na fa nea aka sie. Nneɛma pɔtee abien anaa abiɛsa a wobetumi asiesie, a woka ho asɛm sɛ nhyehyɛe na ɛnyɛ nnipa, na biribiara a anka worenka wɔ obi anim afe akyi no nnkɔ mu.
Nea ɔhwɛ gyae adwuma nsɛmmisa so no, ntaa nni tumi biara a ɔde sesa ade a woreka ho asɛm no, na nkyerɛwee no tena hɔ kyɛ sen nsɛmmisa no. Ɛno nyɛ nea enti a wubedi atoro. Ɛyɛ nea enti a ɛsɛ sɛ wopaw nsɛm. "Sɛnea wɔkyekyɛ nnwuma no mu no ma adwuma a wɔde ma obi foforo no yɛ den" no ho wɔ mfaso. "Na me panyin no yɛ den dodo" no de nni mfaso, na ɛbɔ wo ka sen sɛnea ɛbɔ wɔn ka.
Ɔkwan bi a wode bɛsɔ hwɛ: so wobɛka saa kasasin yi wɔ dan mu a onipa a ɛfa ne ho no te hɔ? Sɛ yiw a, ka. Sɛ dabi a, ɛkɔ wo kokoam nkyerɛwee mu.
Nnwuma a wode ma obi foforo pa te sɛn ankasa?
Kyerɛw no ansa na woaka sɛ woregyae, na ɛnyɛ akyiri yi, na kyerɛw no sɛ nkyerɛkyerɛ krataa na ɛnyɛ nsɛmfua a wɔde bue mfiri nhyehyɛe. Ɛsɛ sɛ obi a onyɛɛ w'adwuma da tumi fa mu na ɔyɛ adwuma no, na ɛno yɛ gyinabea a ɛkorɔn sen nhyehyɛe a ɛkyerɛ baabi a nneɛma wɔ.
Kyekyɛ mu afanan. Nea mehwɛ so ne nea ɛba sɛ egyae. Nneɛma anum a ɛbɛsɛe kan ne nea wɔyɛ wɔ emu biara ho. Nnipa no, wɔn din, a ɛsɛ sɛ wɔfrɛ wɔn ma dɛn. Ne gyinaesi ahorow no, a ɛno ne ɔfa a obiara nkyerɛw na ɛno ne ɔfa a ɛsom bo ankasa: nea enti a yɛhwɛ saa adwuma yi so ɔkwan foforo so, nea enti a saa anammɔn no wɔ hɔ, nea esii bere a etwa to a obi buu ne ani guu so no.
Afei wie adwuma a wohyɛɛ ho bɔ no. Ɛnyɛ ne nyinaa, ɛno rentumi nyɛ yiye, na mmom nneɛma pɔtee a wokae sɛ wobɛyɛ no. Sɛ da bi a wɔahyɛ ba wo da a etwa to no akyi a, ka seesei na bɔ nea ɔbɛfa so no din. Nneɛma kakraa bi na ɛsɛe onipa din sen sɛ obi adwene fii hɔ dapɛn abiɛsa ansa na ne nipadua afi hɔ, na nnipa hu.
Nielsen Norman Group nkyerɛase a ɛfa "peak end" nhwehwɛmu ho no boa wɔ ha. Nnipa kae bere a emu yɛ den sen biara wɔ ade bi mu, na wɔkae sɛnea ɛbaa awiei, na ɛnyɛ ne nyinaa mfinimfini. W'adwuma a wode ma obi foforo no ne awiei no, na ɛno na ne bo nyɛ den koraa wɔ nhyehyɛe yi mu sɛ wobɛyɛ no yiye.
Ade pa a mɛyɛ wɔ me dapɛn abien a etwa to mu ne dɛn?
Sɛe ade a worenkɔgye no da. Bere a worefi hɔ akɔ no, wokura biribi a ɛmmɔ wo ka nanso ne bo yɛ den sɛ obi benya: nkamfo ne nkitahodie a atirimpɔw hintaw mu biara nni mu.
Yɛ nneɛma pɔtee abiɛsa ansa na wɔasi wo kwan wɔ nhyehyɛe no mu. Nea edi kan, kyerɛw kɔma nnipa baasa a wɔmaa w'adwuma yɛɛ papa no apanyin, bɔ ade pɔtee a obiara yɛe ne nea ɛsakrae din, na soma. Ɛnyɛ "ɔyɛ onipa pa a wo ne no yɛ adwuma." Sɛ: "Ɔsan kyerɛwee sɛnea yegye nsɛm mu no na ɔtew bere a yɛde bua so fa, na ɔyɛɛ no dapɛn baako a na obiara nhwɛ." Ɛno yɛ adwuma mu asɛm kɛse ma onipa a wokyerɛw ne ho asɛm no, ɛkɔ krataa bi mu a wɔkenkan wɔ nhyiamu a edi hɔ mu, na ɛgye wo nkyekyɛm baako pɛ.
Nea ɛto so mmienu, yɛ nkitahodie a ɛda w'adwene mu no. Ɔtɔnfo a ɛsɛ sɛ ohyia w'adwumayɛfo. Onipa a ɔwɔ akuw abien akyi a ɔredwen ɔhaw bi ho a obi asiesie dedaw. Nkitahodie a anka wubetumi de asie no, wɔkae mfe pii.
Nea ɛto so mmiɛnsa, gyaw nkyerɛkyerɛ krataa no hɔ ma onipa a wonnyaa no adwuma yɛ.
Eyinom mu biara nsan mma wo nkyɛn wɔ bere a wubetumi ahyɛ ho nhyehyɛe mu, na ɛno ara nti na yɛde aka ho. Eyi ne ayamye a nnipa hu sɛ hwee nni mu mma wo, na ɛno nti na nea aka a woyɛe wɔ dapɛn abien yi mu no yɛ suban na ɛnyɛ nyansakwan kɛkɛ.
Awiei no ne ɔfa a ɛkɔ akyiri
Dapɛn abien yɛ bere tiaa sɛ obi de n'adwene besi so, na ɛno ara nti na nnipa kakraa bi na wɔyɛ saa. Ba, yɛ adwuma no, ma nea enti a woregyae no nyɛ tiawa, fa nneɛma ma sen sɛnea wɔbisae, na ka nnipa baasa din wɔ ɔkwan a wɔn panyin betumi akenkan so.
Asɛm bi wɔ hɔ a mfaso wɔ so sɛ wunim. ADP Research hui sɛ adwumayɛfo a wɔsan ba no ayɛ bɛyɛ ɔha mu aduasa baako wɔ wɔn a wɔfa wɔn foforo mu, na eduu ɔha mu aduasa anum wɔ Ɔbɛnem 2025 mu. Nnipa baasa biara a wɔfa wɔn no, obiako yɛ obi a ɔresan aba. Ɔpon a wufi mu rekɔ nnɛ no bue afanu taa sen sɛnea obiara susuw, na sɛnea wode dapɛn abien yi dii dwuma no na ɛma ɛbue.
Ansa na wɔasi wo kwan no, twe w'ankasa nkrataa. Nneɛma asia a ɛyɛ papa sen biara a woyɛe wɔ ha, nea ɛsakrae esiane wɔn nti, ne wɔn a wohui. Ɛyɛ wo dea, ɛbɛyera Fiada, na wobɛpɛ wɔ asram dunwɔtwe akyi bere a obi bisa wo w'adwuma kwan ho asɛm na wonkae Ɔbɛnem. Afei kɔ na kɔyɛ papa wɔ ade foforo no mu.
Nsɛm no fibea
- Nielsen Norman Group, The Peak-End Rule: How Impressions Become Memories
- ADP Research, Boomerang hiring makes a comeback
- Pew Research Center, Majority of workers who quit a job in 2021 cite low pay, no opportunities for advancement, feeling disrespected