Uyazi ukuthi ufuna ukuba kuphi eminyakeni emibili. Usukwazi isikhathi eside, futhi ingxoxo engakususa iye kulokho isikhona ohlwini lwenu lokuhlangana kwabantu ababili izinyanga ezine, ishibilika iye phansi ohlwini ngoba ikota ihlala inomsindo kunelishumi leminyaka.
Leyo akuyona inkinga yokuzithiba, iyinkinga yendlela okubekwe ngayo. Ingxoxo ngomsebenzi ihlulwa umbiko wesimo njalo ngesonto, ngoba umbiko wesimo unosuku lokugcina kanti umsebenzi wakho awunalo. Isixazululo siwumshini nje: nikeza ingxoxo umhlangano wayo, igama layo esimemweni, nento eyodwa eqondile ofuna ukuphuma nayo.
Abaphathi nabo abakubalekeli. Iningi lilinde wena ukuba uyivule, ngoba ukuyivula bona kungazwakala njengomkhondo wokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ngakho wena vula. Nangu umusho, nokuthi yini oza nayo, nesicelo esisodwa esibalulekile ngaphezu kwazo zonke.
Ngiyiqala kanjani ingxoxo ngomsebenzi nomphathi wami?
Vula ngomusho, hhayi ngecala: ngifuna ukukhuluma ngalapho ngibheke khona, hhayi ngale kota. Faka wona lowo musho esimemweni sekhalenda ukuze kungabikho ozizwa ecuphiwe futhi kungabikho ochitha imizuzu eyishumi yokuqala ezibuza ukuthi ngabe usuzoshiya umsebenzi yini.
Isimemo sibaluleke ngaphezu kokuzwakala kwaso. Umhlangano obizwa ngokuthi ukubambana kancane uphathwa njengokubambana kancane, futhi uzowuchitha kulokho okushayo umlilo. Umhlangano obizwa ngokuthi indlela yomsebenzi, imizuzu engamashumi amathathu uphathwa njengalokho okuyikho, futhi umphathi wakho ufika esekucabangile, okuwumehluko wonke phakathi kwempendulo esizayo neyakhiwa lapho nikhona.
Imizuzu engamashumi amathathu yiwo ubukhulu obufanele. Ucwaningo lwe-Gallup ngezingxoxo zabaphathi lubeka ibanga elisebenzayo phakathi kwemizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu namashumi amathathu, ibanjwe njalo, futhi luthola ukuthi cishe amaphesenti ayishumi nesithupha kuphela abasebenzi achaza ingxoxo yabo yokugcina nomphathi njengebaluleke kakhulu. Lelo yizinga eliphansi kakhulu lokulidlula, futhi ukulidlula kuncike ekufikeni nesihloko esikhundleni sokufika nomoya othile nje.
Yini okufanele ngize nayo ngempela kule ngxoxo?
Yiza nezinto ezintathu kuphela: lapho ufuna ukuba khona cishe eminyakeni emibili, ilokho ocabanga ukuthi kulahlekile njengamanje, nento eyodwa eqondile ofuna umphathi wakho ayenze. Izinto ezintathu ziyalingana ekhanda lomuntu, futhi umphathi okwaziyo ukubamba isicelo sakho ekhanda uyakwazi ukusiphinda komunye umuntu.
Sho lokho ofuna ukuba yikho eminyakeni emibili njengezinga noma njengobubanzi bomsebenzi, hhayi njengesihloko somsebenzi, ngoba izihloko ziyahluka ezinkampanini kanti ububanzi abuhluki. Ukuphatha indawo yomkhiqizo. Ukuqondisa icebo lezobuchwepheshe leqembu. Ukuba ngumuntu okuthi uma kunama-akhawunti anzima athunyelwe kuye. Leyo nguqulo iyahamba, futhi inika umphathi wakho into azoyibhekisa noma ngabe leso sihloko esiqondile singalokothi sivuleke lapha.
Mayelana nengxenye elahlekile, yiza nomqagelo wakho oqotho esikhundleni sombuzo ovulekile. Umqagelo wami ukuthi angikaze ngiphathe lutho oluthinta imikhakha eminingi, futhi yilokho okumi phakathi kwami nezinga elilandelayo. Umqagelo umema ukulungiswa, futhi ukulungiswa yikho ngempela okufunayo, kanti umbuzo ovulekile umema ukunconywa bese kulandela ukuthula. Yiza nomlando wakho futhi. Imigqa eyisithupha yanele: owakwenza, okwashintsha ngenxa yakho, nokwakubona. Akekho okhumbula uMashi, kufaka phakathi wena, yingakho kuya ephepheni ngaphambi komhlangano hhayi enkumbulweni yakho phakathi kwawo.
Iyiphi into eyodwa efanele ukucela umphathi wami ayenze?
Cela ukuba abe umxhasi wakho, bese umnikeza amagama. Umeluleki ukhuluma nawe, kanti umxhasi usho igama lakho egumbini ongekho kulo, futhi ukukhushulwa kunqunywa emagumbini ongekho kuwo.
Abafundi abaningi banikwe igama lokuqala kuphela, yingakho izingxoxo eziningi ngomsebenzi ziphetha ngokunikwa enye ikhofi neminye iseluleko. Iseluleko akusona isithiyo. Isithiyo ukuthi lapho igama lakho livela emhlanganweni wokulinganisa amazinga, kufanele kube khona okwaziyo ukuchaza umsebenzi wakho ngomusho owodwa oqondile, futhi lowo muntu ngeke kube nguwe.
Ngakho kwenze kube lula. Isicelo sizwakala kanje: ngicela usho igama lami egumbini lokulinganisa amazinga, futhi nayi imigqa emithathu ozoyisho. Bese unikeza leyo migqa emithathu, isibhaliwe, ngamunye ubalula into oyenzile nalokho eyakushintsha. Umsebenzi we-Catalyst mayelana nokuxhaswa uwubeka ngokusobala lo mehluko, ukuthi ukwelulekwa kubalulekile ekukhuleni kodwa akwanele kukodwa ukuthuthukisa umuntu, nokuthi ukumelwa yiyona ngxenye ekunyusayo. Umphathi angasenqaba ngokuthembeka isikhundla angasilawuli. Cishe akekho onqaba lokhu, ngoba akumbizi lutho futhi kumenza abukeke njengomuntu onekhono eqenjini lakhe.
Bese uvala isiyingi ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngomugqa owodwa futhi ngaphandle kwentshumayelo. Bala umuntu oyedwa eqenjini lakini ongamenzela khona kanye lokhu, bese usho umusho wakhe ngokuzwakalayo emhlanganweni wenu olandelayo. Uzobona ukuthi kushibhe kanjani ngasohlangothini lokupha, okuyiyona ndlela esheshayo yokuyeka ukuzizwa unamahloni ngokucela.
Kuthiwani uma umphathi wami ethi akukho okutholakalayo njengamanje?
Kuthathe njengempendulo yangempela bese uyaqhubeka, ngoba ukutholakala kungumbuzo ohlukile ekulungeleni. Buza ukuthi yini okumele ibe iqiniso ukuze ube ngumuntu ocacile lapho kuvuleka into, futhi buza ukuthi umzuzu olandelayo wokuthathwa kwesinqumo esinjalo unini.
Izikhundla zivuleka ngohlelo olungashicilelwa muntu. Lokho ozama ukukuqinisekisa akukhona ukuthi ngabe kukhona umsebenzi namuhla, kodwa ukuthi ngabe usuvele ukuwo umusho lapho kuba nomsebenzi. Ngakho cindezela kancane ezintweni ezimbili eziqondile. Yimuphi umsebenzi phakathi kwamanje nalapho ozokwenzela icala. Ubani omunye okumele awubone lowo msebenzi ukuze ubalwe.
Uma impendulo eqotho ithi leli zinga alikho lapha, lowo akuwona umhlangano omubi. Kungumhlangano omuhle kakhulu obanjwe izinyanga eziyishumi nesishiyagalombili ngaphambi kwesikhathi obuzoba nawo ngaso, futhi ukutshela okumele ukwenze ngonyaka olandelayo. I-Pew Research yathola ukuthi kubantu abashiya umsebenzi ngo-2021, amaphesenti angamashumi ayisithupha nantathu abala ukungabi bikho kwamathuba okuthuthuka njengesizathu, elingana nomholo ophansi. Iningi lalabo bantu lakuthola kancane kancane. Wena usanda kukuthola ngokushesha, futhi ukushesha kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ngikuvimbela kanjani ukuba kuguqukele ekuhlolweni kokusebenza?
Sho umngcele ngokuzwakalayo emasekhondini angamashumi amathathu okuqala, bese uyawubamba: lokhu akuphathelene nale kota, futhi angiceli mbono ngomsebenzi wami wamanje. Uma ingxoxo iphambuka noma kunjalo, phawula lokho kuphambuka kanye, ngomusa, bese ubuyela endleleni.
Ukuphambuka yikho okuvamile. Umphathi wakho usebenza ngamakota, ikota yiyona ayeyicabanga ngaphambi kokungena, futhi ulimi lwamazinga nemigomo lukhona nje ngaphezulu. Umusho owodwa uvamise ukukulungisa. Lokho kusizile futhi ngifuna ukubuyela kukho, kodwa nginemizuzu engamashumi amabili esele embuzweni weminyaka emibili.
Hlala uzinzile uma impendulo ingeyona oyethembile. Ukuzola kule hafu yehora ethile akusona isici sobuntu bakho, kuyisu, ngoba umuntu onquma isikhundla sakho esilandelayo ubukela buthule ukuthi uluphatha kanjani ulwazi obungalufuni. Ungadumala kamuva, ngasese, ngokugcwele. Egumbini, kubhale phansi bese ubuza umbuzo olandelayo.
Thumela imigqa emithathu emva kwalokho bese ingxoxo iba yiqiniso
Phakathi nosuku, thumela imigqa emithathu: nakhu engathi ngiyakufuna, nakhu owathi kuyashoda, futhi nakhu esivumelene ukuthi kwenzeke kulandele futhi kunini. Bacele balungise noma yini engalungile. Lokho kuwukulandelela konke, futhi kuguqula ingxoxo efudumele ibe umbhalo owabelwane ngawo ophila ngale kokuhlelwa kabusha kwenkampani, umphathi omusha nekota embi.
Bese ufaka olandelayo ekhalendeni, cishe ikota ngaphambili. Ingxoxo ngomsebenzi akuwona umcimbi, kungumugqa oqhubekayo, futhi eyesibili ilula kakhulu kuneyokuqala ngoba uhlelo lolimi luvele lukhona. Eyokuqala yiyona kuphela ezwakala njengesikhwishikhwishi, futhi lokho kuphela cishe emasekhondini angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ingaphakathi.
Akukho lapha okucela ukuba ufise okuncane noma ucindezele kancane. Kucela ukuba uchithe umusho owodwa kulokho obukuphethe izinyanga ezine, ukuze umzamo osuwenza kakade ufike lapho ungabonakala khona. Kubhukhe kuleli sonto. Ikota izobe isekhona ngoLwesihlanu.