Uyawazi lo msebenzi, futhi uLwesine ulithuba lakho lokukusho lokho kubantu abangakakwazi. Awuqulwa cala. Abantu abangaphesheya kwetafula bazama ukugcwalisa isikhundla futhi bathemba buthule ukuthi uzoba yimpendulo yabo, ngoba enye indlela ngamanye amasonto ayisithupha ezinhlolokhono.
Inkinga iqala ngalo mzuzu onquma ngawo ukuba ngomunye umuntu ihora lonke. Ukudlala indima kudla ukunaka, futhi ukunaka kuwumthombo odingwa ukucabanga. Impendulo ekhishwa yinguqulo yakho engekho iyadla ingxenye yobuchopho bakho okufanele ibe ilalele umbuzo.
Kukhona ucwaningo ngalokhu, akulona nje ukukhuthaza. Ucwaningo olwashicilelwa ku-Journal of Applied Psychology lwalandela abantu bangempela ezinqubweni zangempela zokuqasha, futhi phakathi kwalabo abaqhudelana kakhulu, labo ababefuna ukuziveza ngokuqondile babenethuba elikhulu kakhulu lokuqashwa: eqenjini elilodwa ithuba lokuqashwa lakhuphuka lisuka ku-51% laya ku-73%.
Ngingaphendula kanjani kahle ngaphandle kokuzwakala sengathi ngikhuluma into engiyifundile ngekhanda?
Phendula ngezibonelo zangempela esikhundleni semibhalo ofunde ngekhanda, bese uvumela imininingwane ithwale isisindo. Indaba enenombolo negama lomuntu ngeke ithi zwi njengento efundwe ngekhanda, ngoba akekho omunye umuntu emhlabeni onaleyo ndaba.
Ukuzwakala sengathi ukhulume into eyifundile kuvela ekukhulumeni ngokuvamile, hhayi ekulungiseleleni. "Ngisebenzisana kahle nabanye futhi ngichuma ngaphansi kwengcindezi" kuzwakala kungamanga ngoba abantu abayikhulungwane bakusho kule nyanga. "Sasinezinsuku eziyishumi nanye zokuhambisa uhlelo lwezinkokhelo, ngaluhlukanisa ngazingxenye ezintathu ukuze siqale ngeyingozi kunazo zonke, futhi saqeda kusele izinsuku ezimbili" kuzwakala njengomuntu, ngoba kunjalo. Zilungiselele ngamandla, kodwa lungiselela okuqukethwe, hhayi amagama uqobo. Yazi izindaba zakho eziyisithupha ngokuphelele bese uvumela imisho iphume ngendlela ehlukile njalo.
Thatha ikhefu. Amasekhondi amabili okucabanga okubonakalayo ngaphambi kokuphendula umbuzo onzima abonakala njengokunakekela, hhayi njengokungabaza. Abantu abaningi bagcwalisa lelo gebe ngomsindo ngoba ukuthula kubukeka kubiza kakhulu uma ufuna umsebenzi. Akubizi. Kuwuphawu olushibhe kunazo zonke lokuzola ongalutshengisa.
Ngithini uma ngingayazi impendulo?
Sho ukuthi awazi, bese usho ukuthi ubungayithola kanjani. Leyo mpendulo inamandla kunokuqagela, ngoba umsebenzi ugcwele izinkinga okungekho oke wazixazulula, futhi baqasha ngokuya ngendlela oziphatha ngayo kuleso simo kanye.
Isimo esiphelele sinezingxenye ezintathu futhi sithatha cishe amasekhondi ayishumi nanhlanu. Qamba umkhawulo walokho okwaziyo. Sho ukuthi ubuzokwenzani kuqala. Sho ukuthi ubuzohlola nobani noma nani. "Angikaze ngiqhube ukudlulisa idatha ngobukhulu obungako. Bengizoqala ngokulinganisa ukuthi umthwalo wamanje ukuphi ngempela esikhundleni sokwethemba imibhalo, bese ngibuza kulowo owenza owokugcina ukuthi yini eyamethusa." Akekho ekamelweni oyoyithatha leyo njengobuthakathaka. Bonke ababuzi sebake bahlala phambi komuntu owakhuluma into angayazi, futhi bakukhumbula lokho isikhathi eside emva kokukhohlwa impendulo eyiyona.
Ukuqamba nokho kubiza ngendlela abantu abangayibaliseli. Uma usuqagele, kufanele uvikele lokho okuqagelile, futhi ukuvikela ukuqagela kudla yonke inhlolokhono esele.
Kufanele ngilungiselele izindaba ezingaki, futhi yini eyenza indaba ibe nhle?
Eziyisithupha zimboza cishe yonke imibuzo ozobuzwa yona. Enhle imfushane, iyiqiniso, inenombolo noma umphumela ngaphakathi, futhi igcina ngokuthi yini eyashintsha, hhayi ngokuthi wawuhlose ukwenzani.
Khetha eziyisithupha ezehlukene ngesimo: into oyihambisile, into eyonakala nokuthi wenzani emva kwalokho, isikhathi lapho wangavumelana nomuntu ophezulu kunawe, isikhathi lapho washintsha umqondo, isikhathi lapho wafundisa umuntu, kanye nento oziqhenya ngayo kunazo zonke. Cishe yonke imibuzo yokuziphatha ingenye yalezi eziyisithupha igqoke isigqoko esihlukile. Yingakho ababuzi bebuza ngokuziphatha kwakho okwedlule. Ucwaningo ngezinhlolokhono zokuziphatha ezihlelekile lusekelwe embonweni olula, obekwe ngokusobala kucwaningo lokukhethwa kwabodokotela abasafunda: ukuziphatha kwesikhathi esidlule kubikezela ukuziphatha kwesikhathi esizayo.
Zibhale phansi. Hhayi imibhalo yokufunda ngekhanda, imigqa emine nje ngayinye: isimo, okwenzile, okwashintsha, nalokho obungakwenza ngendlela ehlukile. Umugqa wokugcina yiwona owehlukanisa umuntu ozimele kulowo obala uhlu lwezinto ezinhle azenzile, futhi ababuzi bawubuza ngqo kaningi kunalokho abantu abakulindele.
Kufanele ngibabuze ini, futhi nini?
Buza imibuzo emibili ofuna ngempela izimpendulo zayo, bese ubuza okungenani owodwa maphakathi esikhundleni sokugcinela yomibili ekugcineni. Imibuzo yangempela iyashintsha isimo sekamelo, ngoba iguqula uvivinyo ibe abantu ababili abanquma into ndawonye.
Emihle iqondene nalo msebenzi futhi ayikwazi ukuphendulwa ngekhasi lemisebenzi lenkampani. Umuntu owenza kahle kulesi sikhundla emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha kufanele abe nakuphi angakukhombisa? Yiyiphi ingxenye yalo msebenzi abantu abayithola inzima kunazo zonke? Iyiphi isinqumo ithimba eliphikisana ngalo njengamanje? Uphinde uqoqe ulwazi ozoludinga uma kwehla amathuba amabili ngesikhathi esisodwa. Phakathi kwabantu abashiya umsebenzi ngo-2021, i-Pew Research Center yathola ukuthi umholo ophansi nokungabi bikho kwethuba lokukhuphuka kwakuyizizathu ezivame kakhulu, zombili zingu-63%, ngakho buza manje ukuthi indlela yokukhuphuka lapha ibukeka kanjani.
Buza ngemali lapho inqubo isifika ekungeni lapho imali iyona ndaba ekhulunywa ngayo. Ukubuza ngaphambi kwesikhathi akulona ihlazo, kodwa kuchitha umbuzo owodwa, futhi unemibalwa nje.
Ngingazithoba kanjani ngosuku lwenhlolokhono ekuseni?
Zivocavoce ngaphambi kokungena, futhi udle okuthile. Umuntu osevele wasebenza ngalolo suku ekuseni uyeka ukudlala indima, ngoba uhlelo lwezinzwa selunendawo lapho lubeka khona amandla ngaphandle kwezwi lakho.
Imizuzu engamashumi amabili yanele. Ukugijima, imisebenzi enzima yomzimba, noma ukuhamba ngezinyawo uye esakhiweni. Umsunguli we-KEEP CALM wabhekana nengcindezi yokwakha umsebenzi wakhe ngokwengxenye ngokuziqeqesha, futhi lena inguqulo encane nethembeke kakhulu yalokho: umsebenzi womzimba ekuseni uguqula i-adrenaline yenhlolokhono ibe ukuqaphela okujwayelekile. Bese kuthi, emizuzwini emihlanu yokugcina, wenze izinto ezidinayo. Fika kusenesikhathi ngokwanele ukuze udineke ephaseji. Funda izindaba zakho eziyisithupha kanye, bese ubeka iphepha eceleni, ngoba ukuziphinda ekhefini ukuya phezulu yikho okwenza zizwakale zifundwa ngekhanda.
Uma izandla zakho zithuthumela noma kunjalo, ziyathuthumela. Yehlisa ukukhipha komoya, ubeke izinyawo zombili phansi, bese uqala ukukhuluma. Uvalo akulona uqobo iphutha. Uvalo kuhlanganise nokuzenzisa yilona iphutha, futhi ababuzi sebekubone kokubili ngokwanele ukuze bakwehlukanise. Ukuzinza kubonakala njengekhono ngokushesha okudlula ukubukeka kucwebezela.
Ikamelo elithanda inguqulo yangempela yilona ongasebenza kulo
Kukhona uhlobo lweseluleko senhlolokhono olukuphatha njengento eluhlaza okumele igudlwe kuze kushelele, futhi lukhiqiza abantu abangahlukaniseki. Abantu abaqashwa besuka eqoqweni eliqinile yilabo ababuzi abasakwazi ukubachaza emva kwehora, futhi okuchazwayo kuqondile: umuntu owayezazi izinombolo zakhe, umuntu owavuma igebe wabe esesho ukuthi angalivala kanjani, umuntu owabuza umbuzo owenza umphathi wokuqasha wacabanga.
Akukho kulokho okudinga ukuthi uwufune kancane umsebenzi, noma ukuthi wenze sengathi uzolile ngesinqumo esizobumba iminyaka emithathu yempilo yakho. Wufune ngokusobala. Zilungiselele ngamandla. Bese ungena unguye lowo muntu owenze konke lokho kulungiselela, hhayi njengomlingiswa owamsungula ngoLwesibili.
Uzoyenza kangcono inhlolokhono, futhi uzothola nokunye okusiza nakakhulu. Ikamelo elithanda inguqulo yangempela yilona ongasebenza kulo ngempela.
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