Amathiphu asheshayo
- Qamba ikhono elincane ongalizilolonga ngoLwesibili.
- Bhala phansi amahora onawo ngempela ngaphambi kohlelo.
- Hlola ikhono elincane, hhayi lonke ikhono.
Usuvele ukhethile leyo nto. Mhlawumbe isigingci, mhlawumbe ukubhala, mhlawumbe leyo ngxenye yomsebenzi wakho ofuna ukwaziwa ngayo. Awufuni ilibho, futhi awufuni imvume. Ufuna ukuba muhle ngempela, muhle ngokwanele ukuthi umuntu okwenza lokhu ngokuphila kwakhe abheke umsebenzi wakho anikine ikhanda, futhi uzimisele ukuchitha iminyaka ufinyelela lapho.
Bese uya ufuna indlela, kodwa yonke indlela ibhalelwe umuntu onamahora amane akhululekile nsuku zonke. Amahora ayizinkulungwane eziyishumi. Ukusa okuqala ngo-5. Uhlelo lapho kungekho muntu odinga lutho kuwe kuze kube semini.
Wena unamahora acishe abe ngamahlanu ngesonto. Lokho akusiyo indlela encane yento yangempela, kuyisilinganiso esivamile, futhi sanele. Indlela incishiswa kusinqumo esisodwa: nciphisa ikhono kuze lifaneleke amahora onawo ngempela, bese ubhekisa wonke amahora kuleyo ndawo eyodwa encane.
Ngingaba muhle kangakanani ngempela ngamahora amane noma amahlanu ngesonto?
Uba muhle entweni eyodwa ethile, uma ubhekisa wonke lawo mahora endaweni eyodwa encane. Okungenakuthengwa ngamahora amahlanu ngesonto yikhono lonke ngasikhathi sinye, kungakho abantu abafinyelela endaweni ethile ngesikhathi esilinganiselwe balandela ingxenye yalo kunokuba balandele lonke ikhono.
Bala izibalo kanye, ngoba kuzoshintsha indlela emazithi ezizizwakala iminyaka emibili ezayo. Amahora amahlanu ngesonto angamahora angu-260 ngonyaka, futhi angaphezulu kancane kwangu-500 eminyakeni emibili. Amahora angu-500 angumsebenzi omkhulu, kanti lapho ewela khona kuncike ngokuphelele kunokubhekwa kwawo. Uma ebhekiswe endaweni eyodwa encane, wonke abuthana ndawonye. Uma echithekile phezu kwalo lonke ikhono, kusala usuthintile konke kodwa awunalutho oluwuphethe. Amahora afanayo, umphumela owahlukile, futhi into eyodwa oyishintshile ubukhulu bendawo obhekise kuyo.
Ubufakazi mayelana nokuzilolonga buqinisile ngalokhu. Ucwaningo oluhlanganisa olwahlola yonke imikhakha emikhulu lapho kwafundwa khona ukuzilolonga okuhlelekile lwathola ukuthi luchaza amaphesenti angu-26 omehluko wokusebenza emidlalweni, amaphesenti angu-21 emculweni, amaphesenti angu-18 ezemidlalo yomzimba, amaphesenti angu-4 emfundweni futhi ngaphansi kwamaphesenti angu-1 emisebenzini. Ababhali baphetha ngokuthi ukuzilolonga kubalulekile kodwa akubalulekile njengoba bekushiwo. Kufunde lokhu njengokuwusizo hhayi njengokudumazayo: amahora ayabaluleka, futhi indlela owabhekisa ngayo ibaluleke okungenani kanjalo, futhi yileyo kanye insimbi umuntu onomsebenzi ayibambe ngempela ngesandla.
Yini ikhono elincane, futhi ngingalikhetha kanjani?
Ikhono elincane yingxenye yalo lonke ikhono elincane ngokwanele ukuthi ulizilolonge ngoLwesibili ojwayelekile futhi elicace ngokwanele ukuthi ubone ukuthi lithuthukile noma cha. Hhayi isigingci sonke, kodwa amakhodi e-barre ehlanzekile ngesivinini esingamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ngomzuzu. Hhayi ukubhala konke, kodwa iziqalo ezenza othile afunde isigaba sesibili.
Hlola noma yiliphi ikhono ngemibuzo emithathu. Ungalizilolonga yini ehoreni elilodwa ngaphandle kokulungiselela lutho? Ungabona yini umehluko phakathi kwenyanga yokuqala nenyanga yesithathu ngaphandle kokubuza muntu? Futhi ngabe ukuba muhle kulo kwenza izingxenye ezizungeze leli khono zibe lula, kunokuba lihlale lodwana ekhoneni?
Umbuzo wesithathu yiwona abantu abawugcina, futhi yiwona owenza umehluko omkhulu ngesikhathi. Amakhodi e-barre avula ingxenye enkulu yesigingci. Ukufunda amanothi ngokushesha kuvula ingxenye enkulu yepiyano. Isigaba sokuqala esihlanzekile sithuthukisa wonke amadokhumenti othintana nawo emsebenzini, okusho ukuthi ukuzilolonga kuqala ukukusiza masinyane emsebenzini wakho. Khetha ikhono elincane elidonsa ezinye izinto, bese ukhetho oluncane lulahla ukuzizwa njengokuhlehla.
Uma ungakaliboni ikhono elincane, liboleke kwenye indawo. Thola umuntu ongaphambi kwakho ngeminyaka emibili noma emithathu, ubheke lokho akwazi ukukwenza ongakwazi ukukwenza, ubhale phansi ingxenye encane kunazo zonke enokuphindwa. Bese uyihambisa kule mibuzo emithathu engenhla. Iningi labantu selivele lazi impendulo yalo, futhi selivele libalekela yona, ngoba ikhono elincane elingabathuthukisa kakhulu ngokuvamile yilona okungathokozisi ukulizilolonga futhi okungabonakali kakhulu kunoma ubani obukele.
Ngingawabala kanjani amahora enginawo ngempela?
Bhala phansi amahora onawo ngempela ngaphambi kokubhala uhlelo, ubale lawo asinda esontweni elibi kunalawo akhona nje ngesonto elihle. Iningi labantu lihlela ngokusekelwe esontweni lalo elihle kunawo wonke, lehluleke amasonto amathathu ajwayelekile, bese liphetha ngokuthi alinawo umqondo ohlelekile.
Kwenze ephepheni ngemizuzu eyishumi. Hamba esontweni elivamile ihora ngehora, ubeke uphawu kuphela ezingxenyeni ezingezakho ngempela: akekho omunye ozifunayo, uvukile, futhi awukhathele kangangokuthi leyo hora ingamosheka. Zihlanganise. Noma yiliphi inombolo, yilona kanye ibhajethi lakho lokoqobo, futhi uhlelo olwakhiwe kulo luzobe lusasebenza ngoMashi.
Bese uyawancipha. Hlela cishe amaphesenti angu-70 alokho okubalile, ngoba uhlelo olusebenza kuphela ngamandla agcwele luyaphuka kanye nje uma othile egula. Uma inombolo yeqiniso ingamahora ayisithupha, wakhe isonto elinamahora amane. Ukudlula uhlelo lwakho kungumkhuba omuhle kakhulu kunokuba ulukweleta, futhi amandla onawo aliqiniso ngokwengeziwe kunesikhathi onaso, okuyiphuzu uTony Schwartz noCatherine McCarthy abalibeka eminyakeni edlule, kanti iningi labantu lisahlela ngokuphambene nalo.
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi kuyasebenza ngenkathi lonke ikhono lisekude?
Hlola ikhono elincane, hhayi lonke ikhono. Lonke ikhono lihamba kancane kakhulu ukuthi likunikeze impendulo esikalini senyanga, futhi ukuzikala ngalo yindlela abantu abanentshisekelo abazikhulula ngayo ephrojekthini ehamba kahle.
Khetha isilinganiso esisodwa ongasithatha ngemizuzu emihlanu, usithathe njalo emasontweni ambalwa. Isivinini ongadlala ngaso isigaba ngokuhlanzekile. Imizamo emingaki edingekayo ukufinyelela ithagethi. Isikhathi esidingekayo ukubhala ikhasi. Kubhale ndawana othi uyayigcina, ngoba inkumbulo yakho yokuthi wawumubi kangakanani ngenyanga yokuqala ayithembekile ngendlela ethile ecacile: iyalihlobisa iphutha, futhi yenza namuhla kubukeke kubulele.
Thatha nerekhodi kanye ngekota. Ividiyo yemizuzu emithathu yakho wenza le nto, igciniwe futhi inosuku, iyona kuphela irekhodi lokoqobo ozoba nalo, futhi ukubeka uMashi eceleni kukaDisemba kwenza okuningi ekuqiniseni umoya kunanoma yiliphi ibali lezinsuku ezilandelanayo. Kwenza nokunye okungathokozisi kangako kodwa okuwusizo kakhulu: kukukhombisa iphutha elilodwa elivele lihlala khona kusukela ekuqaleni, elilandelayo okumele ubhekise amahora kulo.
Gcina ithagethi kuleyo ndawo ekuyo. Ukuncipha kwekhono kuyisu lokufinyelela kude, hhayi induduzo yokuthi unomsebenzi. Awunciphisi isithembiso sokusuka kokuba muhle ngempela kuya kokwanele. Ubhekisa lelo sifiso esifanayo kokunye okuncane ngokwanele ukuthi ukwazi ukufinyelela khona ngempela, futhi yikho kanye okwenza ukukufinyelela kube nethuba.
Ukuba muhle ngempela kusaseyisithembiso
Ukuphikisa okungaphansi kwakho konke lokhu ngokuvamile akukhona ngendlela. Kuwukukholelwa ngokuthula ukuthi abantu ababa muhle kufanele babe banikwe isikhathi esiningi kunawe.
Umsunguli we-KEEP CALM, uKaʻohele Carlos, wakha umsebenzi wokuklama enkampanini enkulu yobuchwepheshe, futhi wagcina eba muhle nakwezinye izinto kanye nalokho, kungekho isikhathi esingaphansi kwengcindezi. Wasebenza kanzima indlela yonke futhi wathola izindlela zokuhlala ezolile phakathi naleso sikhathi, futhi zombili izingxenye zalo musho zibalulekile. Ukuzola kwakungesilo umklomelo ekugcineni. Kwakuyilokho okwenza amahora aqhubeka efika iminyaka engamashumi amabili.
Ngakho-ke qamba igama lekhono elincane kuleli sonto. Bhala phansi amahora onawo ngempela, uwancishise ngengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu, bese ubhekisa wonke kuleyo ndawo eyodwa encane ezinsukwini ezingamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ezizayo, ngesikhathi esifanayo njalo, ngoba ukuphindaphinda esimweni esifanayo kuyilokho okuguqula uhlelo kube yinto eyenzeka ngokuzenzakalelayo. Izinsuku ezingamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye zalokho akuyona into ejeziwe, futhi neminyaka emibili ekuyo nakho akunjalo. Ukuba muhle ngempela kuhlala kuyithagethi indlela yonke, ngesonto lomsebenzi eligcwele, futhi lokho yileyo nguqulo abantu abacishe bangekho abakholelwa ukuthi ikhona.
Imithombo
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- Harvard Business Review, Phatha Amandla Akho, Hhayi Isikhathi Sakho
- National Institutes of Health, PubMed Central, Ukwenza impilo ibe umkhuba: isayensi yengqondo ye-'ukwakheka komkhuba' nomsebenzi wonke jikelele