Amathiphu asheshayo
- Beka ihora ngesikhathi esifanayo nsuku zonke, ngisho noma kungusuku olubi.
- Libhalise ngegama langempela lekhono, hhayi 'isikhathi sokugxila'.
- Nqume ebusuku ngaphambili ukuthi ihora lizokwenzani ngempela.
Usuvele umuhle ekugcineni izwi lakho. Uyafika emihlanganweni oyithembise, uletha umsebenzi ngosuku oluthembisile, futhi abantu abakuzungezile bafunde ukuthi izwi lakho linesisindo. Lokho kuwukhono lwangempela, futhi iningi labantu alinalo. Okumangazayo ukuthi umuntu ongaze ashiye isibopho abasenzele abanye, uyashiya ngokuthula sonke isibopho asenzele ukuzilolonga kwakhe.
Isigingci sihlala ekhoneni. Uhlelo lokufunda ulimi luthumela isaziso saso kungekho muntu olubonayo. Isihlelo sekhodi sisenalo ifayela elifanayo ebelinalo ngeSonto. Akukho okwenzekile okumangalisayo. Isonto nje lizigcwalise ngokwalo ezungeze lelo hora, njengoba amanzi egcwalisa indawo elishiywe itshe elikhishiwe.
Isixazululo asikuphinde amandla engqondo. Ukuvikela ihora ngendlela engcono: elimisiwe, elingasho lutho olukhulu, elinegama, futhi livikelwa umthetho hhayi indlela ozizwa ngayo ngoLwesine.
Kungani ihora lokuzilolonga linyamalala kungekho lutho olonakele?
Liyanyamalala ngoba yilona kuphela ihora ohlelweni lwakho olungasondelene namuntu. Zonke ezinye izikhathi zinomuntu ozobona uma zishintshiwe, kanti eyakho ayinamuntu, okwenza libe yinto ephelele eshibhile kunazo zonke esontweni ongayilahla.
Bheka ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela ngosuku lanyamalala ngalo. Umhlangano wadlula isikhathi, othile wacela imizuzu engamashumi amabili, into eyaphuka wayilungisa. Zonke lezi zazinobuso ezazibonwa yizinye izidlangalala zazo. Ihora lakho lona lalinesigingci nje. Uma uhlelo lunemvelo yokudela okuthile, lulahla lokho okuduma kancane emphakathini. Ihora elingaboniswa muntu alidli lutho, yikho kanye kungani lihlale liyilona okuqala ukuhamba.
Qaphela ukuthi lokhu akusona isici sobuntu bakho. Kuyizibalo nje, futhi ngaphansi kwezimo ezifanayo uzophinde wenze ukushintshana okufanayo kusasa. Ngakho-ke shintsha izimo. Konke okulandelayo yindlela yokufaka isisindo ehoreni ukuze liyeke ukuba lula ukuhambisa, futhi akukho lutho kulokhu olucela ukuba ufune okuncane. Abantu abanamasonto agcwele bagcwele ngoba baphishekela okuthile. Nokho ihora lisenokuthathwa. Livela endaweni engenamsebenzi, ekuhambeleni izinkundla zokuxhumana, nasengxoxweni emfushane nabantu ababili ababhalisa isikhathi sakho, hhayi ezinhlosweni zakho.
Ngingalivikela kanjani ihora ohlelweni abanye abantu abangalibhalisa kulo?
Libeke ngesikhathi esifanayo nsuku zonke, ulibhalise ngegama langempela lekhono elikulo, futhi utshele abantu ababili noma abathathu abalawula uhlelo lwakho ukuthi liyini. Isikhathi esibizwa ngokuthi 'Isikhathi Sokugxila' sishintshwa ngaphandle kokucabanga. Isikhathi esibizwa ngokuthi 'Ipiyano, 7 kuya ku-8' sithola umbuzo kuqala, futhi umbuzo uwuvikelo.
- Isikhathi esifanayo nsuku zonke, kubandakanya nezinsuku ezimbi. Ihora eliguqukayo kudingeka linqunywe usuku ngalunye, futhi isinqumo ngasinye siyindawo lapho ihora lingalahleka khona. Ihora elimisiwe iqiniso mayelana nesonto lakho, hhayi ukukhetha okuqhubeka ukwenza njalo.
- Linike igama lekhono. Hhayi 'Isikhathi Sokugxila', hhayi 'Umsebenzi Ojulile', hhayi 'Owami'. Bhala uthi Isigingci, noma iSpanish, noma iPortfolio. Isikhathi esinegama siyisithembiso entweni ethile, futhi kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba ulishintshele kwenye into ngokuthula ngehora lesine ntambama.
- Tshela abantu abangakubhalisa. Ngokuvamile abantu ababili noma abathathu yibo abafaka iningi lalokho okufika ohlelweni lwakho. Sho lo musho kanye: Ngigcina ihora ngo-7 ngeliphathelene nepiyano, ngakho ngizosebenza ngokulizungeza lapho ngikwazi khona. Iningi labantu liyalihlonipha nje, kanti labo abangekwazi bazobuza okungenani kunokuthi bahlanganise phezu kwalo.
Uma usuvele uyaziqeqesha, kukhona isu lesine, futhi yilona olinamandla kunawo wonke lapha. Ukuziqeqesha ngokuvamile kuwukuphela kwesivumelwano umuntu asevele asivikela kubo bonke, kubandakanya nakuye. Faka ihora lokuzilolonga ohlangothini lwaso, ngaphambi komzamo noma ngokushesha ngemuva kokugeza, khona-ke lizothola ukuvikelwa okusesekhona nokusebenzayo. Awakhi umkhuba omusha ungenalutho. Wandisa lowo osuvele umi.
Ihora kufanele libe ngasiphi isikhathi sosuku?
Libeke lapho uthembeke khona kakhulu ukukhululeka, hhayi lapho uhlakaniphe khona kakhulu. Ukwethembeka kunqoba ukuvuselela, ngoba ihora ongalithatha ngempela izinsuku ezinhlanu ngesonto liyanda ngesikhathi, kodwa ihora eliphelele oliphumelela kabili ngenyanga alenzi njalo.
Iningi labantu likwenza ngokuphambene. Bafunda ukuthi ubuchopho busebenza kahle kakhulu ekuseni, babeke ihora ngo-6, kamuva bathole ukuthi ikhaya labo, uhambo lwabo lokuya emsebenzini, noma umzimba wabo unelizwi ekutheni. Ngemva kwamasonto amabili ihora selinyamalele, base bephetha ngokuthi abasibona abantu basekuseni, kanti okwatholakala ngempela bekuncane kakhulu: leso sikhala esithile besingatholakali.
Kwenze kube ukuhlolwa hhayi ukukholelwa. Khetha isikhala ocabanga ukuthi sivikelekile kakhulu, usibambe amasonto amabili, ubale ukuthi wathola kangaki kwezili-10 ngempela. Esisishiyagalombili kwezili-10 siyisikhala esihle. Ezintathu kwezili-10 kungulwazi, hhayi ukwehluleka, futhi impendulo ukuhambisa ihora hhayi ukuzama ngokwengeziwe ngaphakathi kwaso.
Ngenzani ebusuku ngaphambili ukuze ihora lingamoshakali?
Nquma into ethile ihora elizoyenza, uyibhale phansi lapho uzoyibona khona. Ihora eliqala ngombuzo wokuthi yini okufanele wenze ngayo lilahlekelwa imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu ekubhukudeni nje. Ihora eliqala ngomusho othi dlala isigaba B ngesivinini esiphakathi liyabe selisebenza kusukela emzuzwini wokuqala.
Lokhu yikho okushibhe kakhulu kunakho konke okungenziwa, kodwa cishe akekho olenzayo. Ukukhetha yingxenye ebiza kakhulu, futhi ibiza kakhulu ngesikhathi ongalungiselele kahle ngaso: uhlezi ukhathele into esiphathweni sakho isivele. Yiswa leso sindleko ebusuku ngaphambili, lapho kudinga imizuzwana engamashumi amathathu kuphela futhi kungadingeki noma yimaphi amandla engqondo.
Bhala umsebenzi wehora elilandelayo ekupheleni kwehora lamanje, ngenkathi usenolwazi lokuthi ugcine kuphi nokuthi kuyini ebekuzunguzeka. Kwenze lokho okwenyanga, kuqale kube khona irekhodi lomsebenzi, elibaluleke ukwedlula lokho okuzwakalayo. Ihora ongenakuliyibona uyalilahla.
Umuntu uyaqhubeka kanjani nalokhu enomsebenzi ofuna okuningi?
Baqhubeka nalokhu ngokwenza ihora libe yinto evamile hhayi eyisimanga. Abantu abagcina ukuzilolonga iminyaka eyishumi bacishe bangabi yibo abanamasonto alula. Bangabantu abenza isikhathi esincane esisodwa saba into engenakuxoxwa ngayo, base beyeka ukuba nemizwa ngaso.
Umsunguli we-KEEP CALM, uKaʻohele Carlos, wakha umsebenzi wokuklama enkampanini enkulu yobuchwepheshe, futhi wagcina amahora akhe ezintweni ayefuna ukuba muhle kuzo, ohlelweni olufana nalolo obhekene nalo manje. Akalitholanga ihora ngokufuna okuncane. Walithola ngokulenza limisiwe, lingasho lutho olukhulu, futhi livikelwe, okuyiyo yonke indlela ekulesi sihloko.
Ucwaningo ngemikhuba lukhomba endaweni efanayo. ULally nozakwabo e-University College London bathola ukuthi ukuziphatha okusha kuthatha isilinganiso esingamalanga angu-66 okuphindaphindwa esimweni esifanayo ngaphambi kokuba abantu babike ukuthi bayakwenza ngokuzenzakalelayo, futhi umsebenzi wamuva obuyekeza izifundo eziningi ezifanayo wenza lo mkhawulo ubanzi nakakhulu. Isifundo asisona ukuthi udinga izinyanga ezimbili zokuqinisela. Kungukuthi ukufana kuyisithako esisebenzayo. Isikhathi esifanayo, indawo efanayo, into efanayo eyoqalisa, iyagcina-ke ihora selingasadingi isinqumo.
Ihora Ngumthetho, Hhayi Umzwelo
Eminyakeni eyishumi ezayo, umehluko phakathi kwakho nomuntu oyekile ngeke kube yisiphiwo, futhi ngeke kube isikhathi esikhululekile. Kuzoba ukuthi wawuguqula ukuzilolonga waba umthetho, futhi imithetho iyaphila emasontweni angaphili kuwo imizwa.
Amanye amahora azoba mahle kakhulu. Amaningi azoba avamile, kanti amanye ambalwa azoba mabi kangangoba uzozibuza ukuthi kungani uzikhathaze. Wathathe wonke. Ihora elivamile lisayihambisa phambili ikhono, futhi lenza okunye okubaluleke kakhulu: ligcina isivumelwano siphila ukuze sibe khona futhi kusasa. Uma ushiye izinsuku ezintathu, thatha elesine. Irekhodi lide, futhi isikhala kulo siyisikhala nje, hhayi isahlulelo.
Hamba uyokulibeka ohlelweni manje, ngegama langempela lekhono elikulo, ngesikhathi esifanayo kusasa njengalamuhla.
Imithombo
- Harvard Business Review, Indlela Abaphathi Abakhulu Abaphatha Ngayo Isikhathi
- University College London, Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukwakha umkhuba?
- National Institutes of Health, PubMed Central, Isikhathi Sokwakha Umkhuba: Ukubuyekezwa Okuhlelekile kanye Nokuhlaziywa kwe-Meta Kokwakheka Komkhuba Wempilo Nezinto Ezikubangelayo