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Ke alakaʻi ma o ka hiʻohiʻona: ke kumu e nānā ai ka poʻe i kāu hana, ʻaʻole i kāu ʻōlelo

Aʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ke ʻano e hana ai ma ka hana ma o ka nānā. Ma mua loa o kou mālama ʻana i kekahi, ke aʻo nei kāu hana o kēlā me kēia lā i ka poʻe a puni iā ʻoe i ka mea maʻamau ma ʻaneʻi. Eia ke ʻano e hana ai i kēlā hiʻohiʻona i mea kūpono e hahai ai.

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Aia kahi hoʻāʻo mālie e hana ai ma kēlā me kēia kime, a ʻaneʻane ʻaʻole kekahi e ʻōlelo me ka leo nui. Hoʻolaha kekahi i kahi waiwai. Mahalo mākou i ka manawa o kekahi i kekahi. Haʻi mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoiai he paʻakikī. ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻoluhi i ka poʻe. A laila kakali nā mea a pau e ʻike i ka mea e hana maoli ʻ. Nānā lākou inā hoʻomaka ka hālāwai i ka manawa. Nānā lākou i ka mea i uku ʻia a me ka mea i ʻae malie ʻia. Nānā lākou i ke kanaka nāna i ʻōlelo i nā huaʻōlelo, e ʻike inā he maoli nā huaʻōlelo.

ʻO kēlā nānā ka mīkini holoʻokoʻa o ke alakaʻi ma o ka hiʻohiʻona. Holo ia inā makemake ʻoe a ʻaʻole.

ʻAʻole ʻoe e pono i kahi kūlana e pili ai kēia a pau iā ʻoe. Inā ʻoe i kekahi manawa ke kanaka hou e ʻana i ka lumi e aʻo i ke ʻano e hana ʻia ai nā mea ma ʻaneʻi, ua ʻike mua ʻoe i kona hana mai ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. ʻIke mākou i nā kānāwai kākau ʻole o kahi wahi ma ka nānā ʻana i ka poʻe i kani he kūpono. Aʻo ka hoa hana nāna e pane ʻoluʻolu i kahi leka huhū i nā mea a pau e nānā ana ʻo kēia ke ʻano e mālama ai mākou i ka huhū. Aʻo ka mea nāna e ʻi kahi kihi a hala kekahi mea pū.

He aha maoli kā ka poʻe e heluhelu nei

ʻO ka hakahaka a ka poʻe e mālama nui ai, ʻo ia ka mea ma waena o kāu ʻōlelo a me kāu hana. Ua hāʻawi kahi mea noiʻi o Cornell ʻo Tony Simons i kēia i kahi inoa: ka pono ʻhana, ka kūlike i ʻike ʻia ma waena o nā huaʻōlelo a me nā hana o kahi kanaka. Ua ʻike kāna hana ke ʻike nā limahana i kahi ʻano o nā huaʻōlelo e kūlike ana me nā hana, piʻi ka hilinaʻi i ka alakaʻi, a pēlā pū ka hoʻopaʻa. Ke ʻike lākou i nā huaʻōlelo a me nā hana e neʻe kaʻawale ana, nele nā huaʻōlelo i ko lākou mana. Ma hope o nā kūʻokoʻa lawa, hoʻopau ka poʻe i ka hoʻolohe i kāu ʻōlelo a hoʻomaka e mālama iā ia he walaʻau.

He pono kēia e noho ai, no ka mea, hoʻohuli ia i kahi manaʻo maʻamau. Manaʻo ka nui o kākou ʻo ke alakaʻi ma o ka hiʻohiʻona pili nui i ka hana ʻana i nā mea kupanaha a manaʻolana e kope nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā lākou. Kuhikuhi ka noiʻi i kahi wahi hoʻohaʻahaʻa aʻe. Pili ia i ka mau. ʻAʻole ka poʻe e māka iā ʻoe i ka maʻemaʻe. Ke māka nei lākou iā ʻoe i kou kūlana i ʻōlelo ʻia ponoʻī. ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia ka luna nāna e haʻi i ke kaulike hana-ola a laila hoʻouna i nā leka i ke aumoe he kanaka hana ikaika. ʻIke ʻia lākou he kanaka ʻaʻole paʻa kāna ʻōlelo.

Ke kumu ʻo ka nānā ke ʻano e aʻo ai kākou

He kumu ko ka hele lōʻihi o ka hiʻohiʻona. Aʻo ʻia ka nui o ka hana kanaka ma ka nānā, ʻaʻole ma ke aʻo. Nānā mākou i kekahi e hana ana i kahi mea, ʻike mākou i kona pae ʻana, a waiho mākou iā ia he mea hiki no kākou iho. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēlā no kahi pēpē e aʻo ana e peʻahi a he ʻoiaʻiʻo no kahi kanaka kanakolu makahiki e aʻo ana inā palekana ke ʻae ʻole ma kahi hālāwai.

No laila ke hana ʻoe i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e mālama wale i ka hana i mua ou. Ke hōʻike pū ʻoe i nā mea a pau e nānā ana i ka mea i ʻae ʻia ma ʻaneʻi. Ke hōʻike nei ʻoe iā lākou i ke ʻano e mālama ai kēia pūʻulu i kahi hewa, ke ʻano e mālama ai i kahi kanaka ʻōpiopio, ke ʻano e mālama ai i kahi manawa palena e paheʻe ana. Hāmau ka nui o kēlā aʻo. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i ʻike e hana nei ʻoe iā ia. Aʻo lākou naʻe.

ʻO ia ke kumu ʻaʻole loa e hana ka "e hana e like me kaʻu ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole me kaʻu hana." ʻOi aku ke leo nui o ka hana. ʻO ka hana ka haʻawina maoli, a ʻo nā mea a pau āu e ʻōlelo ai ma luna ona he memo wale.

ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona paʻakikī loa e hoʻonoho ai ʻo ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo

Eia kahi e ʻano ʻeha ai ke alakaʻi ma o ka hiʻohiʻona, a kahi e mana ai pū.

Aʻo ka mea noiʻi o Harvard ʻo Amy Edmondson i ka mea āna e kapa ai he palekana noʻonoʻo, ka manaʻo like he palekana ke ʻōlelo, nīnau i kahi nīnau, a i ʻole ʻae i kahi hewa me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻʻole no ia. Hopu kahi kime me ia i nā pilikia ma mua. Kanu kahi kime me ia ʻole iā lākou a hū lākou. A maopopo iā ia kahi e hoʻomaka ai: me ka mea kiʻekiʻe loa o ka lumi e ʻae ana i kona hemahema ponoʻī mua.

ʻAʻole ka hōʻike ʻana i ka nāwaliwali. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ke kanaka wale nō. Ka ʻōlelo "Ke nele paha au i kekahi mea ma ʻaneʻi, pono au e lohe mai iā ʻoukou." Ka ʻōlelo "Ua hewa au i kēlā, a noʻu ia." Ke kamaʻilio ʻo Edmondson no kēia ma nā wahi koʻikoʻi e like me nā haukapila, maopopo ka manaʻo. Inā ʻaʻole loa ke kanaka me ka mana nui e ʻae i ka kānalua, ʻaʻole loa kekahi ma lalo ona e ʻaʻa. Pono e hele mai ka hiʻohiʻona o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo mai ka piko o kēlā me kēia lumi āu e noho ai, ʻoiai ʻo ia wale nō kēlā lumi me ʻoe a me hoʻokahi kanaka hou hopohopo.

ʻO kēia ka ʻāpana e kāpae ai ka poʻe. He maʻalahi ke hōʻi nā hana ʻ, ka hōʻea mākaukau, ka noho maluhia, ka hana ikaika. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ke hōʻi nā mea palupalu. Akā ʻo lākou nā hiʻohiʻona e hoʻokuʻu maoli ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ke ʻōlelo ʻoe me ka leo nui ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo, hāʻawi ʻoe i nā mea a pau i ka ʻae e hoʻopau i ka hoʻopunipuni. Ke ʻae ʻoe i kahi hewa me ka maʻemaʻe, aʻo ʻoe i kahi kime holoʻokoʻa he hiki ke ola i nā hewa ma ʻaneʻi. ʻOi aku ka waiwai o kēlā haʻawina ma mua o kekahi ʻōlelo hoʻoikaika.

Pehea e alakaʻi ai ma o ka hiʻohiʻona ma ka manaʻo

Ke hoʻonoho mua nei ʻoe i kahi hiʻohiʻona. ʻO ka nīnau wale nō inā ke hana nei ʻoe iā ia ma ka manaʻo. He mau mea e kōkua ai:

  • E koho i kekahi mau kūlana a mālama maoli iā lākou. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻi nā mea a pau, a ʻo ka hoʻāʻo e hana pēlā e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i pala. E koho i nā mea ʻelua a ʻekolu paha e koʻikoʻi loa ai iā ʻoe, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ka mālama maikaʻi ʻana i ka poʻe, ka ʻʻole ʻana i ka hana e ʻai i kou ola holoʻokoʻa, a e pale paʻa iā lākou. ʻOi aku ka mau ma nā wahi liʻiliʻi ma mua o nā manaʻo hanohano ma luna o nā mea a pau.
  • E nānā i nā manawa liʻiliʻi, nani ʻole. ʻAʻole hoʻāʻo ʻia ka hiʻohiʻona o kekahi i ka wā o nā ʻōlelo. Hoʻāʻo ʻia ia i ke ʻano e kamaʻilio ai ʻoe no kahi hoa hana ʻaʻole ma ka lumi, inā ʻae ʻoe i kahi hewa i ka manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke hūnā malie, ke ʻano e mālama ai ʻoe i kekahi hiki ʻole ke hana i kekahi mea no ʻoe. ʻO ia nā manawa a ka poʻe e hoʻomanaʻo ai.
  • E pani i kāu mau hakahaka ʻōlelo-hana ponoʻī ma mua o kou hopohopo no kā kekahi. Inā paipai mau ʻoe i ka poʻe e lawe i nā hoʻomaha maoli, e lawe i kekahi. Inā noi ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e pane maikaʻi i ka manawa mua e hāʻawi ai kekahi iā ʻoe i kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo paʻakikī. ʻOi aku ke aʻo o hoʻokahi hoʻopaʻa i mālama ʻia ma mua o ʻumi waiwai i ʻōlelo ʻia.
  • E ʻae i ka poʻe e ʻike i ka hoʻoponopono, ʻaʻole i ka paheʻe wale. E hāʻule paha ʻoe i kou kūlana ponoʻī i kekahi manawa. Hana nā mea a pau. ʻO kā ka poʻe mea e aʻo ai ʻo kāu mea e hana ai ma hope. ʻO ke kapa maopopo ʻana iā ia, "Ua ʻōlelo au e pale au i nā Pōʻalima a laila ua hoʻonoho au ma luna o kou, ua hewa kēlā," e hoʻololi i kahi hāʻule i kahi haʻawina no ke kuleana.
  • E hoʻopau i ka hoʻāʻo e lilo i hiʻohiʻona hemahema ʻole. He puka pani kahi hiʻohiʻona hemahema ʻole. Haʻi ia i ka poʻe ʻo ka maʻemaʻe ke palena, a aʻo wale ia iā lākou e hūnā. He hiʻohiʻona kanaka, kekahi e hoʻāʻo, nele, ʻae iā ia, a hoʻomau, ʻo ia kahi hiki maoli i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke hele ma loko.

He nānā ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoluʻolu

He hana paʻa, maʻamau ke alakaʻi ma o ka hiʻohiʻona, a hiki iā ia ke wāwahi malie iā ʻoe, ʻoi loa ke ʻike ʻoe ke paʻa nei ʻoe i kahi kūlana ʻaʻohe mea a puni iā ʻoe e kaʻana like ai. Inā ʻike ʻoe ua luhi ʻoe i ka noho mau ʻana he kanaka kuleana, inaina, a i ʻole ka halihali ʻana i kahi kaumaha i hoʻomaka e pili i kou hiamoe a i ʻole kou manaʻo, he pono e nānā. ʻAʻole like ka hoʻonoho ʻana i kahi hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi me ka hoʻokomo ʻana i ke kaumaha o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a pau a hiki i ka koe ʻole o kekahi mea ou.

Inā aia ʻoe ma laila, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kekahi, he kanaka āu e hilinaʻi ai, he kumu, a i ʻole he loea, ʻaʻole ia he kāpae mai ke alakaʻi. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i kou mau palena ponoʻī he ʻāpana o ka hiʻohiʻona pū. Aʻo ka poʻe e nānā ana mai kou mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho, e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe a pau.

ʻO ka ʻāpana hoʻoikaika, ʻaʻohe o kēia e pono i ka mana a i ʻole he kahua. Hana ia ma nā koho liʻiliʻi loa, i hana ʻia i kēlā me kēia manawa, ʻoiai ka poʻe e ʻmalie. Ke aʻo nei ʻoe inā makemake ʻoe a ʻaʻole. E aʻo paha ʻoe i kekahi mea maikaʻi.

Nā kumu

  1. INFORMS, Organization Science, Behavioral Integrity: The Perceived Alignment Between Managers' Words and Deeds as a Research Focus (Tony Simons)
  2. AAMC, Amy Edmondson: Psychological safety is critically important in medicine
  3. Harvard Business Review, How to Build a Company That (Actually) Values Integrity
  4. Harvard Business Review, What Authentic Leadership Looks Like Under Pressure

Manuahi, ma nā ʻōlelo he 36. He hui waiwai ʻole, ʻaʻohe hoʻolaha, ʻaʻohe uku, ʻaʻole loa mākou e kūʻai aku i kāu ʻikepili.

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